Hello!
There is so much drama and trauma going on today around the world, and in our lives. There have been many earth quakes and recently a volcano erupting in Iceland. We are all connected, and we feel what is going on whether we are cognitive of that or not. And, its easy to get caught up in!
Has your world been shaking or perhaps feel as if a volcano has erupted in your lives?
The vibrations on the planet have been rising. This means that more of our issues and issues of those around us are surfacing and really in our faces. And, this is usually where the difficulty begins.
Relationships can sometimes be difficult at best especially in the new energy. I would describe a new energy relationship as being open, honest, and doing your best to own your own issues. When you can be open, and completely truthful with your partner, your partner can then help and support you to clear and shift out the old energies. This can be a very difficult process, owning your own stuff and letting go of the fear that holds us to our resistance of trusting and being open. Lets face it folks, it’s hard!
Relationships work when they get closer. At some point you will go farther than you have ever been before. When it gets really close, people can become scared. Fear comes in and then pause and distance……..and then running.
But there is a bright side. Once you do the work, its done!!!!
Most of our issues have been in-bedded within us for a long time. These issues do not want to shift or change. They like their lovely host, as it were. This is why we have such great resistance to change. It can bring up thoughts that can cause fear, lack of trust, and anger, which we usually project towards our partners. This type of interaction usually causes separation and distance between the two of you.
When there is fear or anger, it can be hard to remember why you are together in the first place!
AND THIS IS THE IMPORTANT PART!!!! KEEP REMEMBERING THE TRUTH IN YOUR HEART.
Let your partner know that they are safe, and that you are there for them, to support and love them no matter what. Love is something that is created between the two of you. It is not something that is handed to you.
Here are some suggestions to help you stay connected:
Practice connecting on very cognitive levels.
Talk it out.
Be honest with each other.
Stay out of your head and in your heart.
Working out issues doesn’t happen overnight, however, know that it can be worked out when two people truly love each other.
I send all couples light and love and the strength and perseverance to see things through.
May you have many blessings on your journey of love.
Cat Morgan
P.S. I love you Owen!
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